I always ask the girls what theme they want for their birthday parties. I don't go overboard with my themes. I do a light theme....cake, plates, napkins, goodie bags, and usually a craft project. Simple things.
Six to eight months ago O told me she wanted a "bride birthday party." I knew she wanted a Barbie cake. I had made one for CK several years ago and O wanted one too. Okay, I can do that, but a "bride birthday party." Ookaaay....
I planned on making a bride barbie doll cake. I took O out to find things for the goodie bags. We found bubbles and "engagement rings." (What's a bride without an engagement ring.) O picked out "bridal" napkins and plates (pink with "I Do" on the dessert napkins and hearts and a ring on the plates and lunch napkins) they are very cute.
A few nights before the party O woke up very worried, "Mommy, what am I going to wear for my Bride party?!" Oh boy, is this a girlie girl or what? I reassured her that we would find something. I would buy her something new.
That day we were out getting things for her party and I told O we would buy her a dress for her party. I was thinking of a simple dress. Something she could wear to school. She

needs clothes for Spring. Noooo, it had to be a "bride dress." Are you kidding me?!
"You want to dress like a bride?" I asked
O responds with a big smile, "Yes."
Oh great! Now I'm searching for a wedding dress for my 6 year old. There is something wrong with this. We find one (on sale-thank goodness) at Sears with the Easter dresses. Perfect. I told her she could wear it for Easter too. She loved it and was happy about having a date to wear it again. Not too many brides can say that.
It was a wonderful party. The birthday girl had a wonderful day and that's what's most important!

The Barbie doll bride cake I
made.

The happy "bride" Can't forget about Ken. He had to be with Barbie.

The shy "bride" as everyone sang "Happy Birthday."